Good Friday and Easter are in sight, and once again I am reminded of where true reconciliation will come from. The secret to reconciling my faith and sexuality is probably going to be a silent whisper in the quiet, recesses of mÚ spirit and mind as I quietly choose to be reconciled to God, through Christ. What on earth does that mean? I guess to me, it means that I am going to find the peace that I need by acknowledging that the ultimate act of reconciliation of us to God to was completed through Christ. The work of reconciliation is done. I need to become more conscious of this, and of what exactly it means on a daily basis.
I must confess that the idea of being in communication with God, for me, has felt too distant to relate to. I’ve felt as though there is very little that God would see in me, and there is the littleinconvenience of God being invisible – at what point does this all become madness? I’ve often chosen to simply give up on cultivating a relationship with God because it felt fruitless, crazy and the results and benefits of knowing God seemed to take too long to materialise, if at all. I remained a cranky bitch regardless of persistent prayers to God to help me change. I lie, cheat, steal – the whole lot of sins, and I do not glow with the peace and joy of the Lord that I envy in others (I even break the thou shalt not covet commandment). In short, I’ve felt disqualified to have any business with God. I’ve also wanted, vey often, for God to be something like a magic genie. I ask him for three wishes at a time and Poof! I expect for there to be a result. Seeing as it does not always work this way, I’ve often walked away from prayer experiences with my immature ego bruised, vowing to never play with God again.
So, I guess I am saying that as the week begins and I begin the work of becoming prepared to open myself to reconciliation with God, through Christ perhaps I need to take the first step of becoming open. I need to let go of disappointments, past, present and to come. I also need to grow up a little (not too much) and realise that seeing is not a prerequisite for someone to exist, and that not having what I want is not always a bad thing. I need to change my thinking and enter into a place of surrender, to ask to be reconciled to God, to keep cultivating my relationship to him. As I become reconciled to God I believe that the discord I feel between my faith and sexuality will be fixed. And, I guess the most beautiful message of the cross and resurrection that await at the end of this week is that for those of us who are mired in sin, there is enough provision for us to benefit from Christ’s work of reconciliation.
So ,step one : become more open to being reconciled to God.